Parenting

Essential knowledge for parenting

1. Pregnancy

2. Birth

3. Childhood and Rearing


Pregnancy

-Make sure to kick all addictions/chemical vices

-You will need to eat more, since you are eating for two

-You will have weird cravings, this is normal


Birth (advice applies to you and/or the husband)

-Make sure you are firm and clear with the doctors

-Make sure the baby is labeled immediately at birth. Memorize the label and any distinguishing features

-Hold off on circumcision, let the child decide later in life

-(POST BIRTH) Ensure you are being supervised post-birth, as you may suffer from Postpartum depression/psychosis

US Army TM 8-230 (Basic Nursing) (Pregnancy and Birth information on pg. 416)


Childhood and Rearing

-Read to the child to boost intelligence

-Believe the child when they say something. They cannot vocalize as well as an adult

-Ensure the child knows that being honest and open with you doesn't result in punishment. This will ensure the child is honest and open with you in the long term

-Try to foster hobbies. They increase intelligence, creativity, morale, and can result in a career

-Do not leave them alone with a tablet for long times ("Ipad baby"). This will result in ADHD-like symptoms and emotional stunting. Instead, try to teach them computer skills and internet literacy.

-Physical discipline doesn't work, and can result in emotional stunting, trauma, and a full disconnect from you

-Remember, they will treat you when you need their help, the same way you treated them when they needed help.


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